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How to Be a Poet

BY WENDELL BERRY

(to remind myself)

i   

Make a place to sit down.   

Sit down. Be quiet.   

You must depend upon   

affection, reading, knowledge,   

skill—more of each   

than you have—inspiration,   

work, growing older, patience,   

for patience joins time   

to eternity. Any readers   

who like your poems,   

doubt their judgment.   

ii   

Breathe with unconditional breath   

the unconditioned air.   

Shun electric wire.   

Communicate slowly. Live   

a three-dimensioned life;   

stay away from screens.   

Stay away from anything   

that obscures the place it is in.   

There are no unsacred places;   

there are only sacred places   

and desecrated places.   

iii   

Accept what comes from silence.   

Make the best you can of it.   

Of the little words that come   

out of the silence, like prayers   

prayed back to the one who prays,   

make a poem that does not disturb   

the silence from which it came.


What I’m loving right now…

    1. Man's Search for Meaning

    2. Memory-Making Mom

    3. Theology of Home II: the spiritual art of homemaking

    4. The Enchanted Hour

    5. Habits of the Household

    6. The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry

  • I don’t know if I’ve had a “word for my year” since 2016. But it’s been very obvious to me that I do have a word for this upcoming year. I actually have two words for 2023.

    They are both qualities I am pursuing, characteristics I am praying over, and an overall demeanor I want to cultivate:

    Gentle

    Laughter


Quick now, here, now, always—
A condition of complete simplicity
(Costing not less than everything)
And all shall be well and
All manner of thing shall be well
— excerpt: Little Gidding, TS Eliot

with deliberate choices, I’m finding joy in ordinary experiences.